What causes someone to be angry at a friend they once got along with? Why are the people of the world so quick to judge someone? Sometimes we do say things out of anger or emotion and the other person takes it wrong. Why can’t people just try to respect others feelings. Not everything we say we do, but at times we say what we feel. Over the last year and a half I’ve learned to have email or texting friendly relationships. Here is the problem, you really can’t express yourself the way you want because there’s no body language. Just words, then the reader doesn’t know whether the other is being sarcastic? or just trying to state a quote, because he/ she is trying to show talent and present a dramatic feeling: which can mean many things. There is nothing better than the old face to face conversation where all is seen. When texting, and emailing, you spend more time trying to figure out if you pissed someone off or if you said something right. Either way I find it anti social. Emailing and texting is only good for one thing, just saying “hello” and” I’m on my way”. Call me old fashioned, but I will take the old way and share with you when I see you. I guess when dealing with long distance it isn’t a bad idea, In order to keep in touch. However it is a good form of communication when needing to get someone a message that doesn’t pick up their phone. But going back to my main point of this post; how do people kill years, months, or days, of friendship over a stupid conversation that was un-agreeable by both parties. Whatever happened to understanding the others opinion? When someone I care about tells me they are mad or even disrespect me I ask: What is the problem?, never getting offended, because now there is no one to fix the problem. Because you are now both mad. How ignorant that can be. Well I know this much! I still love everyone I know’ and I really don’t care if you like me or not, my feelings for all never change, because we are mortal! we are all capable of making a mistake. So if you are mad at your friend, stop it and make up and say some jokes, because life is short you never know when it’s the last time you see them.
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